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Intensity and Legitimacy Are Not the Same: How Not to Be Hornswoggled by Strong Feelings

I’m going to keep this short because I’m cutting way back on time at the keyboard due to rotator cuff tendinitis. Ouch. No need to send advice (thank you ever so much); I’m getting lots of expert help. But meanwhile, … Continue reading

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Just Say No to Self Improvement

Self-improvement seems like such a good idea, but when you take a closer look, well, maybe it doesn’t make so much sense after all. Have you suspected or seen through the limitations of New Age magical thinking, but you still … Continue reading

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Why a positive self-image can get in the way

We hear a lot about the importance of having a positive self-image and self-esteem. In reality, any self-image obscures your true nature, which is infinitely more lovely, creative, and compassionate than any persona you might generate. It’s human nature to … Continue reading

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How to Create What You Want with the “Law of Contribution”

There’s a lot said about the Law of Attraction. A more fruitful way to think about creating what you want is the “Law of Contribution.” It’s a fundamental orientation based in openness, curiosity, and willingness to serve. The origin of … Continue reading

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Can You Really Trust the Process?

Why and how can you go with the flow, especially when the stakes are high? One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in life and business has to do with trusting in something infinitely larger and more creative and … Continue reading

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