Category Archives: Spirit

Can Being Spiritual Make You Happy?

Practicing spirituality to attain happiness can’t work. Happiness is in our nature; it’s the ground of our being. We lose sight of that in the midst of our human experience, but it never goes away. Happiness is not something to … Continue reading

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Anxiety Is Always About Ego

When we have anxiety about asking for something–asking a client for a testimonial, asking a prospective client to hire you, or making any other request–we may think we’re anxious because we don’t want to impose, but it’s always because the … Continue reading

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Can the Three Principles prevent suicide or suffering?

I’ve been a spiritual seeker for almost as long as I can remember. As a child I longed to please God. I prayed for visions of the Virgin Mary. I aspired to sainthood. Now at 61 my understanding is substantially different, … Continue reading

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Inner Guidance Is Common Sense

Sometimes the hard part of discerning inner guidance is thinking it’s going to be dramatic or big. In fact, common sense is wisdom perfectly calibrated to a specific moment in time. Don’t confuse this inner guidance in the moment with … Continue reading

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Wellbeing Is Our True Nature

Wholeness is our nature, our default condition. When we remember that we are essentially whole we attach less significance to the ups and downs of our moment-to-moment human experience. We don’t have to get out of the human experience in … Continue reading

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